In our last installment. Lyze shared his experiences with telling others about his love for pregnancy. Today it’s our lovable leader G’tron’s turn.
How many people, that you know in real life, have you told about your kink?
In general I don’t volunteer it unless someone else is being open with me; it’s generally my way of placing trust in people. I told my brother when he came out to me as gay; in fact most of my gay friends know. I know what it’s like to be in the closet.
My brother, and a couple of friends at jobs that I don’t have anymore. My best friend’s ex-girlfriend, who said it was really neat as fetishes go.
How hard was it to tell if you did, and if you did tell multiple people? Does it get any easier?
The hardest was probably my old girlfriend. I told on our third date, and it wasn’t difficult to say so much as took her a while to figure out what I was getting at. At one point she thought I actually wanted to have sex with a pregnant woman’s stomach, woman optional… once I stopped throwing up, I sat her down to show her what I liked.
In general, though, I don’t tell anyone whose reaction wouldn’t be “Wow, really? That’s new… neat!”
Thankfully, I’ve never had to tell anyone that I wouldn’t call a friend. I’ve had teachers pick up stuff I was drawing and go “What’s this?” But it’s not like they’d immediately jump to the conclusion that I’m sexually attracted to what I’m drawing.
Any experiences you want to relate?
Hmm. I did inform a friend when she told me she had actually given up a baby for adoption as a teenager, and she’d stayed with the adoptive couple during the final months, which somehow led to her meeting family friend and personal idol Tim Burton while cranky and bloated.
That has nothing to do with my telling her, other than it being awesome.
February 12th, 2009 at 8:23 pm
Tim Burton meeting you while you’re pregnant…hmm…dunno if that would be really awkward or something else
February 13th, 2009 at 8:53 am
Wow, meeting a celebrity while pregnant. What a wonderful pre-labor experience.
On another note, I never made the connection of having a fetish and being in the closet. Maybe that’s why I ahve alot of homosexual friendships.
February 13th, 2009 at 1:49 pm
I still haven’t told anyone yet. By the way this is just wow.
February 14th, 2009 at 6:58 pm
Heh, sorta like when a gay friend of mine found out that I was a maieusiophile. At first he made fun of me for it, then, with I reminded him with the utmost sophistication and tact, that he was hardly in any position to make fun of my taste in women; because I HAVE a taste in women.